From my point of view

Imagine the conversations you have when you are meeting someone. Your common interests, views, goals. What religion are you? Who did you vote for? Do you want to some day own a house, have a garden? How about kids? Do you want to have kids? How do you want to raise your children? What schools do you picture our future child in? You dream together. You get pregnant and start hoping for a boy, or a girl. I hope she has your eyes and my smile. I hope he gets my sense of humor and your good looks. I hope He's tall like me and has red hair like you. Then discipline should we "spank" our child or use time outs? Let's make sure we stand together on things like, bed time, house rules and chores. No one ever plans for cancer. Who would ask such a thing? What would you do if our child was diagnosed with cancer? Would I stay at the hospital and you would work? Would we take turns? Would I be there for you when you completely lost your mind from stress? How long would you ...